Sunday, February 18, 2007

February 18, 2007 - God’s Con: The Escape

Scripture Meditation: Genesis 30-31

INTRODUCTION

  • Stephanie will be home Thursday
    • She’s had an experience she’ll remember for the rest of her life
    • But for right now-
      • It’s time for my daughter to come home!
      • ...I assume she feels the same way
  • I guess that’s the way it is with every trip you take
    • No matter:
      • How much you’ve anticipated it
      • How much you’ve enjoyed it
      • Or how long a time you’re away
    • There comes a time when you know it’s time to go home
  • For Jacob that time comes after the birth of Rachel’s first child
    • Remember- he’s been living in a foreign land for almost twenty years
    • In that time he’s:
      • Married Leah- and had 7 children with her
      • Married Rachel- and had a child with her
      • Taken Rachel’s servant as a concubine- and had two children with her
      • And had two more children with Leah’s servant- Zilpah
  • Let’s put it this way: Jacob’s no longer a spring chicken- he’s well into middle-age
    • So he looks around and thinks:
      • I’ve been working for my father-in-law all these years and got nothing to show for it.
      • And I’ve got a houseful of wives and children to support
    • What’s more- Jacob is homesick
      • He hasn’t seen his parents in nearly two decades
      • He can’t even be sure they’re still alive

THE AGREEMENT

  • So Jacob decides it’s time to go home
  • Jacob didn’t ask Laban for anything
    • By this point he doesn’t expect to be treated fairly by his father-in-law
      • The Bible tells us that Laban had changed Jacob’s wages on a number of occasions
      • Which is another way of saying he robbed Jacob blind
    • So he says: Just give me my wives and children
      • In other words: Give me your blessing
      • And I’ll be on my way

    Genesis 30:27

  • Laban has come to think of Jacob as his good-luck charm
    • He realizes he’s gotten rich since his nephew arrived on the scene
    • And like any good businessman-
      • Laban doesn’t want to loose his most valuable employee
      • So he makes Jacob a tempting offer

    Genesis 30:28

  • Laban has just handed Jacob a blank check
    • I’ll pay whatever it takes to keep you here
    • But Laban’s burned Jacob once too often
      • He knows Laban will NEVER keep his word as long as money is involved
      • So he makes a clever counterproposal

    Genesis 30:31-31

  • Pop Quiz! Who remembers what Jacob’s name meant?
    • That’s right- The Deceiver
    • Jacob had always been a con man
      • He used guile and deception
      • To get what he wanted out of life
  • But Jacob had changed
    • There was no guile or deception here
    • I don’t want to take anything that belongs to you. Just let me keep some of the sheep and goats I’ve raised to build herds of my own
  • By the way-
    • There was nothing special about the color of the sheep and goats
      • Dark wool was just as valuable as white wool
      • And the streaked and darker animals weren’t genetically different from the rest of Laban’s flock
    • They were just colored differently
      • Which made it easier to keep up with which animals belonged to Laban-
      • And which animals belonged to Jacob

    Genesis 30:33

  • Clearly Jacob’s relationship with God had created a dramatic change in his attitudes and behaviors
    • See- con men aren’t worried about their reputation for honesty. The only thing that matters to them is
      • The scheme
      • And the pay-off
    • But here Jacob is determined to do the right thing
      • If you find a white sheep or goat in my care
      • you don’t have to think of me as your son-in-law
      • You can treat me the way you’d treat a common thief
  • You know, there’s an important lesson here for the church
    • When someone comes to know Christ as their Savior they come just as they are
      • We talk about it- we sing about it- we celebrate it
      • But sometimes we forget about it when new Christians actually come just as they are
    • Here’s the thing about baby Christians-
      • Sometimes their language isn’t what it ought to be
      • Their living arrangements don’t always conform to standards of Biblical morality
      • And they don’t always do the things we think Christians are supposed to do
  • ...And you know what?
    • That’s got to be o-k with us- because it’s o-k with God!
    • Our responsibility is:
      • To accept them as they are- warts and all
      • And then lovingly and patiently teach them how to live a godly, Spirit-filled life
  • Please read what the Bible says in Galatians 6:1-2
  • God accepted Jacob when he was a con on the run
    • Then slowly- but surely- with infinite patience
    • Made him into a person who wanted to be recognized as an honorable man of decency and integrity

JACOB GETS RICH

  • Laban agrees with Jacob’s proposal and they split the herds:
    • Dark and streaked animals go with Jacob
    • All the white animals stay with Laban

    Genesis 30:36

  • Separating the herds was a fairly common practice in the ancient Middle East
    • Water and pasture land were scarce resources that could easily be overwhelmed by too many animals
    • So shepherds frequently kept great distances between themselves and their flocks

    Genesis 30:37-39

  • What you’ve got here is an ancient superstition
    • In those days shepherds believed that whatever a female saw while in heat affected the birth of her offspring
      • Jacob wanted streaked lambs so he placed stripped branches before the ewes
      • He wanted dark goats so he had the females look at other dark goats
    • Which made about as much sense scientifically as consulting an astrologer for advice on your investment portfolio
  • But here’s the thing: It worked!
    • Suddenly all the animals were having streaked or dark-colored offspring
    • The question is why? Was it because of Jacob’s silly superstition?
  • Absolutely not! It was because God’s hand was at work!
    • God had promised Jacob that He would always protect him- that he would cause him to prosper
    • And God was keeping His promise!
  • Please read Jeremiah 29:11-13
  • Jeremiah 29:11 is often quoted by the so-called Prosperity Gospel preachers
    • They claim it means God wants to make you super-rich
    • That may very well be God’s plan for you
      • It was His plan for Jacob
      • But naming it-and-claiming it doesn’t make it so!
  • What this passage of Scripture is REALLY saying is-
    • That-
      • If you trust God with all your heart and soul- and submit to His leadership in your life
      • He will fulfill all the plans and purposes He has in mind for you!
    • And eternally speaking- that’s a better deal than any get-rich-quick scheme ever thought about being
  • Getting back to Jacob- his success created intense resentment among his Laban’s sons
  • Genesis 31:1

  • Jacob had a real knack for getting along with the male members of his family
    • He’d cheated his brother Esau out of his birthright- and his father’s blessing- and Esau decided to try to kill him
    • Now his brothers-in-law thought Jacob had cheated their father-
      • Which- of course- would rob them of their inheritance
      • Suffice it to say: They were ready for a little murder and mayhem of their own
  • Of course-
    • Jacob hadn’t cheated Laban out of anything
    • Being pagans- Laban’s sons didn’t recognize the hand of God at work

    Genesis 31:3

  • Jacob had been ready to go home years earlier
    • But that time wasn’t God’s time
    • Now it was God’s time
  • Folks- never try to get ahead of God
    • For one thing.../ For another thing...
      • It’s not very smart
      • It doesn’t work
    • Remember what we read a few moments ago in Jeremiah 29
      • God has plans for your life and His timing is always perfect
      • Your challenge is to trust Him and learn to wait patiently on the Lord

THE ESCAPE

    Genesis 31:4

  • Once they got there Jacob lays out his case for leaving Laban and going back home. He makes three points:
    • 1- Your father has cheated me on many occasions
      • Jacob talks about wages that were promised and never paid
      • But you KNOW Rachel and Leah had to be thinking about the circumstances surrounding their weddings
    • 2- God has called on me to return to the land of my fathers
    • And 3- God has renewed His promise to be with me and protect me on my journey
  • You know- there’s an interesting parallel here between what happened to Jacob and what happened to his grandfather Abraham
  • Genesis 12:1-3

  • Do you see the connection?
    • God had told
      • Abraham to LEAVE his father’s household and go to a place He would show him
      • Jacob to RETURN to his father’s household and claim the place He would show him
    • In any event- God was asking each man to take an incredible step of faith
      • Abraham and Jacob were told to leave everything that was safe and familiar
      • And follow God wherever He lead
  • You know- faith is always like that
    • The time may come when God will call you out of your comfort zone- and ask you to follow Him
      • It may be to teach a Sunday School class
      • It may be to go on a mission trip
      • It may be to take on a new ministry
      • It may be to become a pastor or a missionary
      • Whatever
    • But when God’s call comes- you have to make a decision
      • Will you be faithful and follow Him?
      • Or sit on the sidelines and miss out on all the blessings He wants to bring into your life?
  • When Jacob was talking to Rachel and Leah-
    • He’d already made up his mind to follow God
    • Now he was giving them an opportunity to take that step of faith with him
  • Which was very unusual in that culture
    • Technically Rachel & Leah were his property and he could order them to come with him
    • But whatever else you can say about their relationships-
      • And heaven only knows it was dysfunctional
      • Jacob loved and respected Rachel and Leah enough to give them a choice

    Genesis 31:14-16

  • Basically Rachel and Leah have made a business decision
    • Ever since our father used up our dowry- he’s treated us like strangers
    • Obviously- God’s made you prosperous at our father’s expense- and that’s fine with us. Now his wealth belongs to OUR family. We’ll go with you.
  • All of which sounds pretty cold-bloodied-
    • They haven’t mentioned anything about staying with Jacob because they loved him (Like I’ve said before- they had an odd relationship)
    • But I don’t want you to miss the importance of the last thing they say: Do whatever God has told you.
  • This is a pretty remarkable expression of faith when you think about it
    • Rachel and Leah had grown up in a pagan family
      • They were used to worshiping idols and so-called house gods
      • The God Jacob worshiped- Yahweh/ Jehovah- was alien to them
    • BUT- with these words:
      • They’ve put their faith in Yahweh as the one true and living God- the Creator of the Universe
      • In other words: Jacob’s God had become their God too

    Genesis 31:17-21

  • I want you to try to put yourself in Jacob’s shoes
    • What do you think he was feeling as he crossed the river and headed for home?
    • What kinds of things would have been on his mind?
  • For one thing- he knew that eventually Laban was going to come looking for him
    • And he wouldn’t be hard to find
      • What with his wives and children and flocks in tow
      • Jacob faced a long, slow journey
    • Who KNEW what Laban and his bloodthirsty sons would do once they found him
  • Jacob also realized that Gilead was a LONG way away
    • He was headed home- not knowing what he’d find once he got there
    • He didn’t know.../ And as far as he knew...
      • If his parents were dead or alive
      • His brother Esau still wanted to kill him
  • When you’ve got an angry enemy behind you- and a potentially murderous enemy in front of you
    • That’s not a good place to be- but that’s where Jacob found himself
    • It had to have been terrifying
      • So what kept Jacob going?
      • His faith in God
  • God had promised Jacob that He would never- no not EVER- fail or forsake him
    • And for Jacob that was enough
    • He was ready, willing and able to follow God by faith, and faith alone

CONCLUSION

  • You know- sometimes Christians wonder why they always seem to be stuck in a spiritual rut
    • The answer is simple: A lack of faith
    • God has bold plans and a powerful purpose for your life
      • But if you’re unwilling to take that first step of faith-
      • You’re gonna remain in that rut forever
  • Sometimes churches wonder why they seem to be condemned to mediocrity and spiritual decay
    • Same answer: It’s because of a lack of faith
      • God wants His church to accomplish great things-
      • To achieve awesome spiritual victories for His glory and honor
    • But as long as we’d rather stay in our comfort zone-
      • As long as we aren’t willing to place a radical trust in God
      • We’ll just keep slogging along until death or Judgment Day
  • Folks- all it takes to change EVERYTHING is...
    • A willingness to take that first step of faith
    • To trust God- and His promises- completely, totally and absolutely

    Jeremiah 29:11-13

  • Let us pray

Sunday, February 11, 2007

February 11, 2007 - God’s Con: The Contest

INTRODUCTION

  • The great thing about sports is that it’s always easy to know who won
    • Take last Sunday’s Super Bowl
      • Colts- 29
      • Bears- 17
    • The.../ And the...
      • Indianapolis Colts are the world champs
      • Chicago Bears are wondering if they need a new quarterback
  • If only it were that simple in the rest of the world
    • But it’s not
    • In real life things are never that cut and dried
  • Take the contest that developed between Jacob’s wives- Leah and Rachel
    • The story is found in the 30th chapter of Genesis
    • And it was as intense and bitter as any ‘rivalry game’ you'll see on ESPN
  • It was also sad and shocking and tragic
    • And yet God used this family feud to bring about His Will and Purpose for the world
    • It’s a fascinating story- one we want to examine this morning as we continue our sermon series on Jacob’s life

THE ROOTS OF THE RIVALRY

  • Now before we get started let me summarize what we've learned so far
  • As a young man Jacob...
    • Had taken his older brother Esau’s birthright in a manipulative business transaction
    • Then, with the help of his mother, conned his father into...
      • Giving him the blessing
      • Isaac intended to give to Esau
  • When Esau discovered what Jacob had done he was so enraged he resolved to kill his brother
    • But before that could happen- their mother Rebekah caught wind of Esau’s plans
    • And told Jacob to get out of town- and stay there- until Esau cooled off
  • A day into his journey
    • Jacob has a dream in which God makes a covenant with him
    • A covenant that makes Jacob the heir to all the promises God had made
      • First to his grandfather Abraham
      • And then to his father Isaac
  • With the assurance of God’s love and presence, Jacob sets out for the land of Paddan Aram- or Haran
    • When he gets there the very first people he met knew his mother’s brother- Laban
    • Who proceeded to welcome Jacob with loving arms
  • It turns out Laban had two daughters:
    • An attractive older daughter named Leah- and a sexy younger daughter named Rachel
    • Whom Jacob falls for hook, line and sinker
      • He wanted Rachel so bad he makes his uncle a ridiculous offer:
      • I’ll work seven years for her hand in marriage
  • That was a GREAT deal for Laban and he quickly accepts
    • But after the seven years are up he doesn't keep his end of the bargain
    • Instead of giving Jacob Rachel as promised- Laban substitutes Leah instead
  • When Jacob realized what had happened- he was furious
    • You promised to give me Rachel and you tricked me into marrying Leah instead!
    • Laban comes up with some flimsy excuse that Leah had to be married first- and then makes Jacob another offer:
      • Let Leah finish her honeymoon then I'll let you marry Rachel
      • IF you'll work for me for seven more years
  • And that’s where we pick up today’s story in Genesis 29:30-31

LEAH’S MISERY

  • I guess you could say Leah was a humble person
    • She had simple dreams
    • The only thing she wanted out of life was to be genuinely loved by her husband
  • Unfortunately she was married to Jacob
    • Now it wasn't like Jacob hated- or abused her
    • She just knew she wasn't his first choice: Look- the only reason I married you is because your father deceived me. I'll always support and protect you- but my heart will ALWAYS belong to Rachel
  • That had to be a miserable existence
    • Leah must have cried herself to sleep on many nights
    • And God noticed her misery
      • And God did something
      • He begins to bless Leah with children

    Genesis 29:32-35

  • The names Leah gave her sons reflect the sadness of her life
    • Reuben- It is because the LORD has seen my misery. Surely my husband will love me now.
    • Simeon- Because the LORD heard that I am not loved, he gave me this one too
    • And then Levi- Now at last my husband will become attached to me, because I have borne him three sons
  • By the time her fourth child is born- Leah realizes that having children has not caused Jacob to love her
    • So she names the baby Judah: This time I will praise the LORD
    • In other words: Thank You God for giving me this child; but he won't change the fact that I'm unwanted and unloved
  • Like I said earlier: A miserable existence- but here’s the thing Leah didn't understand
    • Even though she wasn't Jacob’s choice
    • She WAS the one God had chosen!
  • Historically- the two most important tribes of Israel were HER direct descendents
    • The tribe founded by her son Levi...
      • Produced Moses-
        • The Lawgiver
        • The greatest prophet Israel ever had
      • And the Levitical priesthood established by Moses’ brother, Aaron
    • The tribe of her son Judah...
      • Produced David- the greatest king Israel ever had
      • And ultimately- Jesus the Christ- God’s only begotten Son- would be counted as one of Leah’s descendents!
  • Read how Jesus is described in Revelation 5:2-5
  • Jesus-
    • The Lion of the tribe of Judah
    • The Root of David
    • ...LEAH’S family

RACHEL’S LAMENT

  • Now let’s pick up the story in chapter 30- verse 1
  • Now THERE’S a switch: Rachel had become jealous of Leah
    • Growing up...
      • Leah had always been the sweet little girl sitting in the corner by herself
      • While Rachel was the golden child who dominated every room she entered
    • But in this particular contest Rachel...
      • Knew she couldn't win by wowing people with her looks and charm
      • Had to be able to give Jacob children
  • So she goes to Jacob and says: Give me children, or I'll die!
    • Makes Rachel sound like a bit of a drama queen- don't you think? Give me children, or I'll die!
    • But back then- there was a lot of truth in what she said
  • In those days a woman’s worth was ultimately judged by her ability to have children
    • If a woman had kids- especially sons- she was considered blessed by God
    • If she couldn't have any children-
      • She was considered cursed by God
      • And as good as dead
  • Which explains Jacob’s harsh response to Rachel’s plea
  • Genesis 30:2

  • Evidently- Jacob had no understanding of his own family history
    • His grandfather had two sons: Ishmael and Isaac
      • Abraham loved Ishmael- his firstborn son- and begged God to let him be the child of the promise
      • But God said No. I'll bless Ishmael- but Isaac will be the child of the promise
    • Jacob’s father Isaac...
      • Wanted Esau to be the recipient of God’s special grace and blessing
      • But God said: No. Esau will be blessed- but Jacob is the chosen one
    • And now Jacob...
      • Wanted God to carry out His promises through his chosen wife- Rachel
      • But God seemed to be saying: No. Leah- the wife you didn't want- is the one I have chosen- and will bless.
  • Now I don't claim to be smart enough to know why God does things the way He does them
    • But I see a pattern here: In EVERY case God’s blessing was matter of grace- not of works
    • People thought-
      • They knew how it SHOULD work out
      • But God’s grace always surprised them
  • And that’s the way it is with God’s grace
    • It’s never determined by who you are- or what you've done
    • Instead- it’s ALWAYS based on God’s love and His sovereign choice
  • Please read Ephesians 2:8-9
  • If you know Jesus as your personal Savior and Lord- if you are saved
    • Don’t assume it’s because of anything you've done
    • Instead- be sure to praise God for His love and grace and sovereign choice!

THE CONTEST

  • Well- let’s get back to Rachel. Read what it says in verse 3
  • What we're talking about here is surrogate parenting.
    • Rachel can't have a baby
    • So she tells Jacob to take Bilhah- and have a child with her

    Genesis 30:4-5

  • I wonder how Bilhah felt about all this
    • Given the circumstances- she must have felt like she'd been raped
    • And then- once she gives birth- the baby was taken from her and given to Rachel

    Genesis 30:6-8

  • I’m not sure I understand Rachel’s reasoning- and her math doesn't add up
    • But in her mind- she’s won a great victory over her sister
    • Through Bilhah- Rachel has given Jacob two sons

    Genesis 30:9

  • This must have been one of the most difficult decisions Leah ever made
    • She was already depressed about having to share Jacob with her sister
    • But by this point-
      • She’s so desperate to win her husband’s love and approval
      • She’s ready to bring ANOTHER woman into this bizarre, dysfunctional marriage

    Genesis 30:10-13

  • Even though Leah says she’s happy- I suspect she wasn't telling the truth- the whole truth- and nothing but the truth
    • On the one hand-
      • She recognized her babies were gifts from God
      • And she was genuinely thankful for each child
    • On the other hand-
      • She still doesn't have what she really wants
      • Jacob’s love and affection

    Genesis 30:14

  • The mandrake is a flowering plant found in the Middle East
    • In ancient times the mandrake was considered to be something of a fertility drug
    • In other words: Rachel thought she might get pregnant if she ate some of Reuben’s mandrakes

    Genesis 30:15-16

  • Did you notice the language the Bible uses here? It says Leah hired Jacob for the night
    • This shows how strange and destructive the relationship between Jacob and his wives had become
    • Essentially- Leah had paid Rachel for a night of sex with Jacob
  • And here’s the thing:
    • Jacob accepts this as a perfectly normal state of affairs in his family.
    • And the tragedy is- it was!
      • Earlier Rachel had told him to make babies with her servant Bilhah- and he did it
      • Then Leah told him to take her servant Zilpah and have a few more kids- and he did that
      • And now Leah is telling him: you're obligated to sleep with me tonight because I purchased your stud services from my sister
  • ...Tell me something: Was that as uncomfortable for you to hear as it was for me to say?
    • Let’s face it-
      • This isn't the kind of story you're going to tell preschoolers in Sunday School
      • It’s a little bit more than they need to know
    • But here’s the thing: The Word of God has never been in the business of censoring or sugarcoating its content
  • Think about it this way: The 30th chapter of Genesis is the story of where the 12 Tribes of Israel came from
    • And it’s not a very pretty picture
    • For instance- let’s say you belonged to the tribe of Issachar
      • Someone asks you: Where did your people come from? How did your family get started?
      • Well...my great-great grandmother Leah hired my great-great grandfather Jacob to have sex with her so she could have another baby. That child turned out to be the founder of my tribe
  • Folks-
    • People don't like airing their dirty laundry
    • BUT the ugly story of Leah hiring Jacob for the night proves the absolute truth of the Word of God!
  • See- the Bible ALWAYS tells it like it is
    • It’s not only holy-
      • It is infallible
      • And it is inerrant!
    • In other words:
      • When the Bible says something- you can believe it!
        • Whether it’s the ‘E- True Hollywood’ story of Issachar’s birth
        • Or the proclamation of the Good News of salvation in the name of Jesus!
      • The Bible always tells the TRUTH!

    Genesis 30:17-18

  • I want you to understand what Leah’s thinking here.
    • She believes Issachar’s birth is God’s stamp of approval on her decision to let Jacob have children with her maidservant Zilpah
    • Notice what she says: God has rewarded me for giving my maidservant to my husband
  • So- does that mean God endorsed all the shenanigans that went on in Jacob’s household?
    • Given what the Bible says about sexual morality- the sanctity of marriage- and the family that could hardly be the case
    • But given with she'd experienced- that’s what Leah thought

    Genesis 30:19-20

  • Did you notice the subtle change in Leah’s attitude?
    • Before she had always wanted Jacob’s love- she was willing to do almost anything to have it
    • Now she’s saying she'd be happy just to have Jacob honor the contributions she’s made to his family
      • It’s a sad state of affairs
      • And it shows how miserable Leah’s life was
  • The irony is that in death Leah was able to achieve what she was never able to have in life
    • Ultimately Jacob would bury Rachel- who died first- by herself in a tomb near Bethlehem
    • While he would specifically instruct his sons to bury him next to Leah in a cave he had purchased at Machpelah
  • ...I admit that what I'm about to say is a generalization- but here goes:
    • Dysfunctional families who practice conditional love tend to buy fancy, more expensive caskets
    • Than families who have always loved one another openly and unconditionally
  • The point I'm trying to make is:
    • Don't be like Jacob who waited until after Leah’s death to demonstrate his love for her
    • Make sure your family knows how much you love them right here- right now

    Genesis 30:21

  • I know this sounds harsh-
    • But Dinah’s birth wouldn't have been considered very important in Jacob’s family
      • That doesn't mean Dinah wouldn't have been loved and treasured
      • But in that culture the emphasis was on having male children
    • In fact- given the times it’s amazing Dinah’s birth was noted at all

    Genesis 30:22

  • When Rachel sold Jacob’s services to Leah in exchange for Reuben’s mandrakes
    • She believed they would act as a fertility drug enabling her to become pregnant and have a child
    • That didn't work out very well- did it?
      • Leah gave birth to three more children between the time Rachel bartered for the mandrakes
      • And the time she finally got pregnant
  • The Bible makes it clear Rachel became pregnant for one reason- and one reason alone:
    • It wasn't superstition
    • God caused it to happen
  • This says something important about the nature of God’s grace
    • Remember- Rachel was the wife Jacob wanted
    • But Leah was the wife God chose to bless
      • Her sons would become the founders of the two most important tribes in Israel
      • The only begotten Son of God would be one of HER descendents
  • But that didn't mean God had abandoned Rachel
    • Instead- His love for her was so great
    • That He allowed her to have children too

    Genesis 30:23-24

  • Eventually God answered this prayer as well
    • Rachel became pregnant again- and gave birth- to Jacob’s 12th- -and final- son
    • Read Genesis 35:16-18

CONCLUSION

  • The name Ben-Oni means son of my sorrow
    • And this is from Rachel- the wife who knew she had Jacob’s undying love and affection
    • The fact she died with words of grief on her lips shows how incredibly sad and dysfunctional Jacob’s family was
  • And yet-
    • Through the unfolding of this tragic family drama
    • God was at work fulfilling His plan of salvation for the world
  • See- that’s the way God is
    • He can take the biggest train wrecks life has to offer
    • And work to bring glory and honor to His name
  • Romans 8:28 puts it this way: And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.
  • In working with Jacob’s family God’s purpose was-
    • To establish a special relationship with his descendents
    • In order to send His only begotten Son into this world to die on a Cross to save you from your sins
  • Just think about it:
    • If God can bring something beautiful and good out of a terrible, self-destructive contest between two sisters
    • What can He do with your life? What can He do for your family?
  • Let us pray

Sunday, February 04, 2007

February 4, 2007 - God’s Con: The Weddings

Scripture Meditation: Genesis 29:1-30

INTRODUCTORY REMARKS

  • I don't know about you- but sometimes I find it hard to relate to the people of the Bible
    • After all, they...
      • Lived a long time ago
      • Had a lot of strange customs
      • And sometimes they can seem so super-saintly- so other-worldly
    • It becomes hard to relate to them as real human beings
  • But every so often I'll come across a situation that is so familiar- so universal
    • That all the holy polish gets stripped away
    • And I see these folks as ordinary people dealing with the ordinary- and not so ordinary- problems of life
  • The 29th chapter of Genesis is one of those situations. It’s plot line is as familiar as... run-of-the-mill chick flick
    • Boy meets girl
    • Boy and girl fall in love
    • Boy and girl face a few challenges
    • And finally- boy and girl get married
  • Of course- in this particular love story the plot is a little more complex:
    • Boy meets girl
    • Boy and girl fall in love
    • And talk about CHALLENGES!
      • Boy agrees to work for seven years to win the girl’s hand in marriage
      • Boy marries girl- only to find out he’s married her older sister by mistake
      • Boy confronts his father-in-law
        • Who agrees to let him marry the girl of his dreams-
        • But only if he'll work seven more years
    • And finally- boy and girl get married
      • At which point things REALLY get strange
      • But that’s a story for next weeks episode of this compelling Biblical soap opera
  • As for today- I want us to focus on the incredibly bizarre circumstances surrounding Jacob’s marriages to Rachel- and her older sister Leah

JACOB’S VOW

  • Please read Genesis chapter 29
    • This morning we're going to focus most of our attention on verses 16-30
    • But first- let me set the stage for what’s about to happen
  • If you remember the previous sermons in this series Jacob-
    • Had taken his older brother Esau’s birthright through a cruel business transaction involving a bowl of soup
    • Then- with his mother’s help- he'd tricked his father into giving him the special blessing Isaac intended to give to Esau’s
  • Once Esau’s realized his blessing had been stolen- he was a man on a mission
    • He fully intended to kill his younger brother
    • In order to reclaim his birthright- and his father’s blessing
  • But before he had a chance to do that- his mother Rebekah did two things:
    • First- she told Jacob to high-tail it out of town until Esau’s cooled down
    • Then she convinced Isaac to send Jacob back to the land of her ancestors to find a wife
  • After a long day of travel- Jacob settled in for the night only to have a powerful dream
    • In the dream God promised...
      • To give Jacob a country to call home
      • To provide him with a great posterity
      • To make Jacob a blessing to all the nations of the Earth
      • And to be with him always
    • With those words- Jacob had become the child of the promise
      • Just as God had done with his grandfather Abraham, and his father Isaac
      • Jacob had been chosen to be the recipient of God’s special love and grace
  • In response Jacob makes a vow to God
  • Genesis 28:20-22

  • Now I want you to notice something about Jacob’s promise: God hadn't asked him to do any of these things
    • In other words:
      • Jacob isn't trying to earn God’s love- or win God’s favor
      • God had given him these things as a gift of grace
    • Rather- by making this vow Jacob is responding to the grace God has already given him
  • Folks- there’s an important lesson here that all Christians need to learn
    • There’s NOTHING you can do to make God...
      • Love you more
      • Love you less
    • In fact- He loved you first- and He loved you best
      • He sent Jesus to die for you on the Cross
      • And if you've accepted Jesus as your Savior- He’s poured His grace into your life
  • So what should you do about it?
    • You need to respond to God’s love by worshiping and serving and loving Him with all your heart and with all your mind and with all your spirit
    • This is what Jacob is doing in Genesis 28
      • He’s not making a bargain with God
      • He’s saying: "God, you've loved me so much- I want to worship and serve You all the days of my life"

JACOB ARRIVES IN HARAN

  • Anyway- with the assurance of God’s love Jacob sets out for Haran
    • Now remember-
      • He’s going somewhere he’s never been before
      • Trying to find an uncle he’s never met before
    • To say the least- those are pretty daunting odds
      • I mean- it wasn't like Jacob had a map, a GPS guidance system or even an address for his uncle
      • This was pretty much a shot in the dark
  • Except for one thing: God was guiding Jacob every step of the way
    • So much so that when he got to Haran the first person he spoke to knew his uncle
    • Look at what the Bible says in Genesis 29:1-6
  • Folks- Jacob was either...
    • The luckiest man on the face of the Earth
    • OR God had worked a miracle!
  • There’s no doubt about how Jacob interpreted these events
    • He knew God had been found faithful!
    • And he responded to God’s faithfulness with thanksgiving and sobs of relief

Genesis 29:9-14

RACHEL AND LEAH

  • Pam and I have been married for 26 ½ years- and I STILL remember the first time I saw her
    • I was sitting in a classroom at Southeastern Seminary waiting for an Old Testament class to begin
    • When she walked in the door
      • She was wearing a blue mini-dress with a scooped neckline
      • She looked GREAT- and my mind immediately turned to mush
  • That’s the way Jacob felt when he saw Rachel for the first time. Talk about love at first sight
    • Jacob immediately ran over-
      • Planted one on her lips- which you didn't do in those days
      • And THEN introduced himself as her father’s nephew
    • Evidently Rachel’s heart must have skipped a beat because she immediately ran home to tell her father all about her handsome cousin
  • Anyway Jacob winds up staying with Labia’s family
    • Finally- after about a month- his uncle makes a proposition
    • Read Genesis 29:15
  • Now remember Jacob’s personality: He was a con-artist
    • His life was dedicated to using wit and guile to avoid hard work
    • But this time all his skills and talents abandoned him- and it was all because of Rachel

    Genesis 29:16-17

  • Over the centuries Leah has gotten a bad rap
    • And it’s because English translations of the Bible say Leah had weak eyes
      • Which have lead some people to conclude that Leah was rather unattractive
      • That she was a wallflower who could never hope to get a man
    • Unfortunately, weak is a poor translation of the original Hebrew word used here
      • A better translation would be to say that Leah had delicate or lovely eyes
      • In other words: Leah was a pleasantly attractive young woman
  • But Rachel was another story all together.
    • The Bible makes it clear that she was drop-dead gorgeous- that she radiated sex appeal
    • Let’s put it this way:
      • Rachel was so smokin’ hot
      • That Jacob- the master con artist- proceeded to make the worst deal of his life

    Genesis 29:18

  • Laban must have thought he'd hit the jackpot
    • He was ready to agree to almost anything Jacob said...Jacob was family
    • But here Jacob is essentially selling himself into slavery- it was a deal Labia’s couldn't pass up

    Genesis 29:19-20

  • When seven years seems like seven days
    • You’ve got it- and you've got it BAD!
    • Jacob was so in love with Rachel the days seemed to fly by
      • Each day that passed
      • Was one day closer to the day he could take Rachel to be his wife
  • And finally- the day of reckoning arrived...

LABAN’S DECEPTION

Genesis 29:21-23

  • I’m one of those people who refuses to accept passages of Scripture at face value
    • That doesn't mean I doubt the absolute truth of the Bible
      • It’s just if something sounds strange to me
      • I’m going to ask some questions
    • Well I have a lot of questions about the 23rd verse of Genesis chapter 29
  • The Bible is telling us that Jacob never realized he was sleeping with the girl he thought was his sister-in-law
    • I’m sorry- but how is that possible?
    • I mean-
      • Jacob’s lived with Labia’s’ family for seven YEARS!
      • It’s not like he didn't have a lot of chances to get to know Rachel and Leah
  • Some people try to avoid this thorny question by suggesting that Leah concealed her identity by keeping a veil on throughout the night
    • Folks- that doesn't make any sense
    • Jacob’s been waiting seven years to be with Rachel
      • This is his wedding night-
        • He can take off her clothes
        • And he’s not going to remove her veil?
      • I don't buy it- not for a single minute
  • Other people argue that Jacob had gotten drunk at the wedding feast
    • So drunk- he wouldn't have known the difference between the two sisters?
    • So tell me- if he was that drunk- how was the marriage consummated?
  • And then there’s Leah- put yourself in her shoes
    • Obviously she knows that Jacob is in love with her sister Rachel
    • So why would she have agreed to go along with her father’s crazy scheme?
      • Did she have such a poor sense of self-esteem that she seriously thought no man would ever want her?
      • Or did she secretly love Jacob and want him for herself? Interesting.
  • And what about Rachel- the Bible indicates she and Jacob fell in love on the day they met
    • Rachel HAD to know what her father was up to- she was probably one of Leah’s bridesmaids
    • Are you telling me:
      • She never registered a word of protest?
      • That she never tried to warn Jacob about her father’s deceptive plans?
  • Look, the Bible doesn't answer all these questions- but I've got a theory about why Jacob failed to recognize Leah
    • For some reason- known only to Him- this was a part of God’s Will for Jacob’s life
    • God was using this dysfunctional group of folks to accomplish His Will and Purpose
  • See here’s the thing: God always had a plan
    • His plan was to establish a special relationship with the descendents of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob
    • A relationship that would climax with the coming of his only begotten Son- Jesus the Christ
  • Please read Genesis 3:1-15
  • What you've got here is the first prophecy concerning the coming of Christ
    • And it happened immediately after Adam and Eve had sinned
    • God tells the serpent- who is Satan:
      • You think you've accomplished something. You think you've destroyed the relationship I have with My people
      • Well you're dead wrong! I've already put a plan of salvation in place
        • Out of My chosen people will come a Savior
        • Even though you will strike at His heel- He is going to CRUSH you
        • And bring about the redemption of My people! The people I dearly love!
  • Now THAT’S a plan

JACOB’S RESPONSE

  • With all that in mind- let’s get back to Jacob
    • He wakes up the next morning- turns over- and sees Leah lying there
    • Suffice it to say- he wasn't very happy about it.

    Genesis 29:25-27

  • Here’s irony for you:
    • Why had Jacob received his father’s blessing?
      • Because he'd fooled Isaac into giving him- the younger son
      • The blessing Isaac intended to give to his older son, Eau’s
    • Why did Leah have a husband?
      • Because her father Labia’s had fooled Jacob into taking his older daughter Leah
      • Rather than his younger daughter Rachel- the one Jacob really loved
    • In other words: The con-man had been conned!
  • Jacob’s subsequent actions suggest he understood Labia’s’ deceit to be a form of divine retribution
    • He must have thought:
      • My past has finally caught up with me
      • God is punishing me for what I did to my father and brother
    • In any event Jacob didn't protest any further
      • He dutifully completed the week-long honeymoon with Leah
      • And then took Rachel to be his wife- in exchange for seven more years of hard labor

CONCLUSION

  • But here’s the question I want you to consider:
    • Question:
      • Was Jacob’s assumption correct?
      • Does God punish His children when they sin?
    • Well...it depends on what you mean by the word punish
  • If you mean: I lose my salvation and God condemns me for eternity to a sinner’s hell- the answer is ‘Absolutely no!’
    • When you received Jesus Christ as your Savior and Lord-
      • God forgave all of your sins- past, present and future
      • And gave you the gift of His grace- eternal life in Christ Jesus
    • John 3:16-17
  • Now with that in mind- please read Hebrews 12:5-6
  • Folks- there’s no doubt God disciplines His children when they sin
    • And sometimes- from our perspective- God’s discipline can feel like harsh punishment
      • For instance- if God lets you face the consequences of your sin
      • You- or your loved ones- may suffer a period of intense pain or sorrow
    • But here’s where you have to understand God’s motives:
      • He’s not trying to harm or destroy you
      • Instead, he’s disciplining you...
        • And He’s doing it because He loves you
        • He’s doing it so you can become a mature, Spirit-controlled man or woman of God
  • To put it another way:
    • God loves you so much- He wants to make you into a better you!
    • Galatians 5:22-24 explains what God’s ultimate goal for you is
  • Now THAT is a gift of amazing grace! Let us pray