Sunday, February 03, 2008

February 3, 2008 - LIFE LESSONS 101: Overcoming Temptation

INTRODUCTORY REMARKS

  • Stephanie once told me: Daddy- I think you'd leave Mom for Diana Krall
    • No way! No how! Pam was, is, and always will be the love of my love
    • ...But- I will confess that Diana's singing kind of does it for me. Love that jazz!
  • Hit it Ben! (Play intro to 'Temptation')
    • Kind of sessy- isn't it?
    • Makes temptation sound cool- sophisticated- alluring- enticing

TRANSITION

  • Actually- temptation is nothing like that at all
    • Temptation is spiritual warfare at its most intense
    • And it's something every Christian has to deal with
  • Consider what Jesus went through in the desert outside Jericho. The story is found in Matthew 4:1-11
    • Typically we'd be reading from the NIV
    • But not today. For a change of pace- I want to use The Message Bible
  • Let me make a few quick observations before we get into this morning's message
    • Jesus was genuinely tempted to sin against His Heavenly Father
      • This wasn't a 'horse-and-pony' show
      • The things Satan said got Jesus' attention
    • The fact that Jesus was tempted proves that being tempted is not a sin
      • Remember- Jesus NEVER sinned
      • ...But He was tempted
    • Jesus endured the full fury of Satan's assault
      • Notice what it says in the 11th verse: The Test was over. The Devil left
      • Satan had run out of tricks. So he quit. He gave up. He threw in the towel
    • If Jesus struggled with temptation- so will we
  • That's why it's so important to develop a game-plan for dealing with temptation
    • We're going to try and do this- this morning
    • We're going to discover some time-tested Biblical principles for dealing with temptation
  • The first of these principles is...

LEARN THE GROUNDRULES

  • Have you ever tried to play Spades with a new group of friends?
    • It's almost impossible
    • Because nobody plays exactly the same way
      • So you'll spend almost as much time discussing the ground rules you'll play by
      • Than you spend actually playing the game!
  • When it comes to coping with temptation the same principle applies
    • Before you can develop a strategy for dealing with temptation
    • You've got to understand what you're up against- you need to learn the ground rules
  • To do that you have to go back to the Bible
    • Now most English translations of the Bible use one word- temptation- to describe two different ideas
    • The first of these concepts refers to times of testing
  • Deuteronomy 8:2-3
  • Here's what the Bible is saying:
    • Occasionally God allows these kinds of 'tests' or 'temptations' to come into your life
    • The reason is simple: God will use these experiences to strengthen your faith and help you grow in Christ
      • Granted- it's not always pleasant
      • But if you remain faithful to God throughout the test- He'll bless you in ways you can't begin to imagine
  • Now the second way the Bible uses 'temptation' is the one we're interested in today
    • In this case temptation is anything that serves as an enticement- or an inducement- to sin against God
    • Which obviously takes in a LOT of stuff
  • Including things which can be good- depending on the context. For instance- take sexual desire
    • Expressed within the bonds of Christian marriage sexual desire is a normal, healthy, God-given thing
    • It's when sexual desire turns outside of marriage that it becomes a temptation which can lead you to sin against God
  • So the first thing you need to do in developing a strategy for dealing with temptation is to...
    • Learn the ground rules
    • The second thing you need to do is to...

UNDERSTAND THE STAKES

  • You know- Jesus came to Earth fully aware of God's plan for His life
    • God sent Him to be the Savior of the world
    • And that meant Jesus would have to humble himself and (becom
    • obedient to death-- even death on a cross!
  • Now remember- Jesus was fully God and fully man
    • As the incarnate Son of the Living God- Jesus was determined to offer Himself as a sacrifice for our sin
    • But as a human being- Jesus wondered if there might be an easier way to do it
  • In that context- each of Satan's temptations make sense
    • You're supposed to be God's Son- the Savior of the world!...
      • And to do this You've got to suffer and die on a Cross?
      • Hey Jesus- I've got an easier way
        • Do what I'm telling You to do
        • And the world will make You their king
    • Jesus- what I want you to think about is:
      • How invested are You in God's plan and purpose for Your life?
      • What does Your relationship with God really mean to You?
  • Folks- whenever you're tempted to sin against God
    • Those are the stakes
    • How invested are you in God's plan and purpose for your life? What does your relationship with God really mean to you?
      • Are you willing to submit your Will to His plan and purpose for your life?
      • Do you love Him more than anything- or anyone- else in your life?
  • For instance
    • Let's say you struggle with an addiction to drugs or alcohol
      • When you feel a craving for that substance the real issue is this:
      • Does your desire for God exceed the desire for your drug of choice?
    • Or let's say you're a person who's consumed with money- and the things money can buy
      • You may be a workaholic or a shop-aholic but for you temptation means:
      • What's more important: My stuff? Or my relationship with God?
    • Let's say you're filled with animosity towards people of other races or ethnic backgrounds
      • Your prejudice may be expressed towards blacks- Jews- Hispanics- whatever- but the real question is:
      • Are you willing to let go of that cultural baggage in order to have a better relationship with God?
  • Do you begin to see what we're driving at?
    • No matter what tempts you
    • The stakes are always the same
      • How invested are you in God's plan and purpose for your life?
      • What does your relationship with God really mean to you?
  • So in developing a strategy for overcoming temptation
    • First- you've got to know the ground rules
    • Then you need to understand the stakes
    • And third you need to:

KNOW YOUR ENEMY

  • In the battle with temptation you've got to know what you're up against
    • A)You need to be able to identify who your enemy is
    • And understand the strategy he uses against you
  • 1 Peter 5:8
  • Folks- the Bible says that Satan is your enemy
    • If you don't know Jesus as your Savior his goal is to prevent you from accepting Christ so you'll spend eternity in hell with him
    • If you're a Christian-
      • Satan's goal is to trip you up and make you fall into sin
      • Robbing you of the abundant life God promised in His Word
  • See here's bottom line:
    • Satan HATES you and will use temptation to try and destroy you!
    • Now let me explain how Satan uses temptation to lure you into sinning against God
  • And here's where you need to remember that Satan isn't stupid
    • He knows if he came at you dressed in a red suit with a pitch fork in his hand
      • You know who it was
      • And you'd reject him every time
    • That's why Satan is subtle
      • In fact- Paul says Satan will masquerade himself as an angel of light. (2 Corinthians 11:14)
      • In other words: Satan pretends to be a messenger from God! And that is the ultimate deception!
  • Now once Satan has confused you as to his true identity- he'll begin his attack
    • But again- he'll be subtle about it
      • He won't start by tempting you with...say... a full-blown affair
      • It may start with a few phone calls- or a racy e-mail...or a secretive lunch
    • But eventually Satan will up the ante. That's why today's...can become tomorrow's
      • Innocent flirtation...sordid affair
      • Social drinker...alcoholic
      • Little white lie...pathological liar
      • One small sin...spiritual disaster
    • In Galatians 5:9 Paul conveys this spiritual principle when he notes: A little yeast works through the whole batch of dough.
  • So let's review what we've got so far
    • In the battle against temptation you need to...
      • Learn the ground rules
      • Understand the stakes
      • Know your enemy
    • And then you need to...

STOP PLAYING THE BLAME GAME

  • You know whenever I preach about Satan I got a little nervous
    • My fear is that somehow I'll make more of him than he deserves
    • What I mean is that...
      • While he's diabolical, devious and highly intelligent
      • He's not particularly powerful
    • In fact- if you're a born-again child of God Satan ultimately has NO power over you

    Romans 6:3-7

  • What all this means is that once you've accepted Jesus as your personal Savior and Lord
    • The only power Satan can have over you- is the power you let him have!
    • Satan can entice with temptation- but you're the one who chooses to do the sinning!
  • The Bible describes this process in James 1:14-15
  • Let's say you're a man who struggles with pornography
    • Satan might cause you to remember the web address of a porn site
    • But you're the one who has to type in the address- and click the mouse- and spend time fantasizing about the women who are depicted there
  • Now once you're able to understand this truth
    • You'll stop playing the blame game
      • Satan is so mean! He won't leave me alone!
      • He makes me do things I don't want to do!
    • And start focusing on the real issue: The control you are allowing sin to exert in your life
  • So in overcoming temptation-
    • You need to:
      • Learn the ground rules
      • Understand the stakes
      • Know your enemy
      • Stop playing the blame game
    • And then you must...

AVOID THE THINGS THAT TEMPT YOU

  • Young people: I'll bet you know someone in your school who is pregnant- or has already had a baby- right?
    • Now think about this with me:
      • Do think that girl- or the guy who got her pregnant
      • INTENDED for that to happen?
    • Of course not!
      • Most people don't PLAN to wind up pregnant after having premarital sex
      • The problem is they put themselves in a vulnerable position
        • It might have started out with a little French kissing- then proceeded to some heavy petting
        • And before they knew it- they'd gone too far!
  • In 1 Timothy 6:9-11 Paul offers Timothy this advice
  • Notice what Paul has told Timothy to do in the struggle with temptation- he says to flee from all this
    • In other words: When you confront something that might tempt you to sin against God run in the opposite direction as fast as your legs can carry you
    • Or better yet- Avoid those kinds of things in the first place
  • This is one of the most important principles for dealing with temptation on a day-to-day basis
    • If you KNOW that you're vulnerable to a particular type of temptation
    • You ought to be smart enough not to put yourself in a position where you might be overwhelmed by sinful desire!
  • Illustration: Sam Malone
    • One of my favorite old TV sitcoms is Cheers
      • Love that show!
      • It's still 'laugh-out-loud' funny
    • Remember Ted Danson's character- Sam Malone?
      • On the show Sam owns Cheers and is its head bartender
      • He's also a recovering alcoholic
    • Now think with me: Does this really make sense?
      • Could a recovering alcoholic spend ten hours a day in a bar and remain sober?
      • It's possible- but it's not very likely
  • In the Lord's Prayer Jesus says: lead us not into temptation- but deliver us from the evil one
    • If you ask Him to- God will give you the wisdom to recognize those things that might drag you into sin
    • But you've got to be smart enough to avoid them when you can
  • So in dealing with temptation-
    • You need to:
      • Learn the ground rules
      • Understand the stakes
      • Know your enemy
      • Stop playing the blame game
      • Avoid the things that tempt you
    • And finally you must...

DRAW ON THE POWER YOU POSSESS

  • Read what the Bible says in 1 John 4:4
  • Folks- as a Christian you have three resources available to you that will overcome any temptation Satan lays at your feet
  • One- You have the Word of God
    • Remember what Jesus did when Satan was tempting Him in the Wilderness?
      • In every case Jesus quoted Scripture
      • Jesus said: It is written- and Satan had no answer!
    • In Ephesians chapter 6 Paul describes the weapons you can use to defeat the schemes of Satan: In addition to all this, take up... the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God. (16-17)
    • Folks- the Bible is an offensive weapon against ALL the temptation Satan can offer
      • You don't have to hide behind the Bible like this (Demonstrate)
      • You can use the Word of God to deliver a death blow to Satan and all his schemes!
  • Two- you have the Cross of Christ
    • You know, a lot of people misunderstand the Cross
      • They think that even though God had the final victory
      • The Cross represented a temporary triumph of Satan over Christ
    • NOTHING could be further from the Truth!
      • The last place Satan wanted Jesus to be was hanging on the Cross
      • See- Satan understood that by dying on the Cross Jesus was fulfilling God's plan of salvation
    • Folks- when Jesus died on the Cross Satan received a mortal wound
      • The Cross staggered Satan- and will ultimately destroy him
      • So Satan lives in horror of the Cross- he doesn't want to be reminded of the time, the place, or the event of Calvary
  • Three- in fighting the battle with temptation you have prayer
    • I once heard a preacher say: We prepare for spiritual battle on bended knee
      • At one time I believed that was true
      • But the more I think about it- the more I realize that's not quite right
    • You don't PREPARE for the battle when you pray- you FIGHT the battle when you pray!
    • Again Paul lists prayer as an offensive weapon to use against Satan in Ephesians 6
    • Satan is TERRIFIED by prayer because he knows that God LISTENS when His children pray!
      • Satan wants to do his dirty work in the shadows- hidden from the power of God
      • Prayer causes the Almighty God to join the battle on your behalf- and Satan has NO DEFENSE in the face of the power and majesty of God!
  • So let's review our strategy for overcoming temptation. In battling temptation you need to:
    • Learn the ground rules
    • Understand the stakes
    • Know your enemy
    • Stop playing the blame game
    • Avoid the things that tempt you
    • And finally- Draw on the power you possess

CONCLUSION

  • Illustration: A Fire Rescue
    • A few years ago a large Chicago hotel caught fire late one night
      • Turns out a woman was trapped on one of the upper floors of the hotel
      • As she looked around at the wall of flame- she was convinced she was going to die in that place
    • But then she heard a voice call out: Over here maam- this is the way to safety
      • It was the voice of a fireman- who had come to rescue her
      • By following his voice she was saved
  • Folks- if you're feeling trapped by the flames of temptation- there's a voice calling out to you saying: Over here- this is the way to safety
    • It's the voice of Jesus
    • And it leads past the Cross- right to the safety of God's love
  • Let us pray

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