Sunday, August 13, 2006

August 13, 2006 - Overcoming Your Fear Of Sharing Christ

by Rev. Steve Bass

INTRODUCTORY REMARKS

  • I bumped into Mandy Helms the other day at the hospital
    • She looked every inch the medical professional she soon will be
      • She was wearing a lab coat
      • Had a patient’s chart in her hand
      • And a stethoscope draped around her neck
    • Sometimes I think the stethoscope around the neck thing must be the first thing they teach you at medical school
  • This month, Mandy will begin her final year at the Bowman-Gray
    • Sometime next spring she’ll graduate and become a fully licensed medical P.A. with a specialty in surgery
    • Already she’s doing a rotation at Northeast Medical Center in Concord working 60-70 hour weeks
  • As a resident PA, Mandy’s responsible for making critical decisions concerning her patients’ care.
    • She told me how odd it felt to have the nurses and technicians asking HER what to do
    • She said: It’s scary. I know I have to get it right every time.
  • How would YOU like to live with that kind of pressure?
    • Get it right- or a person may die
    • ...I’m not sure I could handle it!

TRANSITIONAL REMARKS

  • A lot of Christians feel the same kind of pressure when it comes to sharing their faith with another person
    • Get it right- or a person may die and go to hell?
    • I’m not sure I can handle that kind of pressure!
  • I call it the fear factor in witnessing
    • You’re so afraid you might make a mistake- or say the wrong thing
    • That you wind up saying- or doing- nothing at all
  • But here’s the thing:
    • If you choose to say- or do- nothing at all
    • Your friend- or family member- or co-worker- or schoolmate- or neighbor may die and enter eternity lost
  • That’s why I want to help you overcome the fear factor
    • Just like Mandy is in-training to equip herself to be a medical professional
    • This morning I’m going to help you be ready for the next time someone asks: "Can you tell me how to become a Christian?"
  • By the way- If you know Jesus Christ as your personal Savior and Lord YOU CAN DO THIS!
    • Sharing the Good News of God’s grace is not hard!
      • You don’t have to know a lot about theology
      • You don’t have to have a degree in Biblical studies
      • And you don’t need a Certificate of Ordination on your wall
    • If you have a personal relationship with Jesus- the Holy Spirit can use YOU to lead another person to Christ
      • So take out your Bibles- and a pen or pencil
      • And let’s get started

PREPARE YOUR TESTIMONY

  • How many of you know what a personal testimony?
    • Watch for hands- ask if someone can explain
    • A personal testimony is the story of what the Lord has done for you!
  • Folks- NEVER underestimate the power of a personal testimony:
    • People...
      • Can argue religion
      • They can debate Christian theology
      • They can even discuss the merits of the Bible
    • But the one thing they can’t argue with is the story of your personal experience with Jesus!
  • Now preparing your testimony is not nearly as difficult as it might sound
    • Essentially it involves three elements...
      • What your life was like BEFORE you became a Christian
      • HOW you came to accept Jesus as your Savior
      • What your life has been like SINCE Jesus came into your life
    • If you’re ready to tell someone these three things- you’re ready to share your testimony
  • With that in mind- let me make a couple of points about a testimony
    • First- it should be honest
      • Your testimony doesn’t need to include every single, sordid detail of your life
      • But you do need to honestly and openly say: This is who I was- this is what I was like- before I became a Christian
    • Second- Don’t be overly dramatic
      • Just state the facts
      • Trust me: You don’t need to embellish the POWER and WONDER of God’s grace and love
    • Third- Keep the focus on Jesus
      • Remember- while a testimony is your story
      • The point of your story is tell JESUS' story
    • And fourth- Don’t stop with your testimony
      • Think of your testimony as an appetizer- it’s supposed to get someone ready for the main course
      • And HERE’S the main course (Hold up the Bible)
        • If someone wants to be saved- they have to be confronted with the truth of the Word of God
        • Listen to what the Bible says about itself: (Read 2 Timothy 3:14-17)
  • Folks- the Bible contains God’s plan of salvation
    • Given that that is true- you’ve got to know how to use your Bible to lead another person to Christ
    • So during the rest of this sermon I’m going to teach you how to use your Bibles to tell others about Jesus

MARK YOUR BIBLE

  • (Explain the methodology of marking your Bible)
  • JOHN 3:16

  • The first passage I want you to mark is John 3:16
    • So turn to John 3:16 and at the top of the page write "3:16"
    • Read the verse
  • Folks- John 3:16 is the story of the Gospel summarized in 26 words! I mean look at what it does
    • First of all- it establishes the source of the Gospel
      • It says the source of the Good News of Jesus Christ is God and His perfect love:
      • "For GOD so loved..."
    • Second- John 3:16 establishes the scope of the Gospel
      • It says the scope of the Gospel includes EVERYONE, EVERYWHERE
      • "For God so loved the WORLD"
    • Third- it establishes the sacrifice God made for us
      • It says God willingly sent His Son- Jesus the Christ- to save us from our sin
      • "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son,"
    • Fourth- John 3:16 establishes how a person can be saved
      • A person can be saved by believing in the name of Jesus
      • "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever BELIEVES in Him"
    • And finally- John 3:16 defines what it MEANS to be saved
      • Salvation means that if a person has a faith relationship with Jesus they will receive God’s gift of eternal life!
      • "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever BELIEVES in Him shall not perish but have eternal life..."
  • Illustration: "Lonely For Your Child"
    • When Stephanie went away to college Pam and I thought we were ready for it
      • We were sure Stephanie would love it- and she has
      • And we were genuinely excited for her
    • But let me tell you- all the excitement in the world couldn’t mask the loneliness we felt after she was gone.
      • Our hearts were broken- we missed our daughter
      • Granted-
        • At the time Matthew was finishing up his senior year at UNCC and still living at home
        • But you know- in parental math 2 minus 1 doesn’t equal plenty
  • Folks, that’s the way it is with God
    • Yes- He’s got MANY children
    • But there’s still an empty spot in His heart for the one who’s missing
      • THAT’S what you get to share with some-one who’s lost
      • "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever BELIEVES in Him shall not perish but have eternal life..."
  • Oh by the way: If you only had time to share John 3:16
    • You could stand before God KNOWING that you’d fulfilled your responsibility as a witness
    • Because you would’ve shared EVERYTHING a lost person needs to know in order to be saved
  • But we’re not gonna stop there

ROMANS 3:11-12 & 23

  • The next verses you’ll want to share are Romans 3:11-12 & 23
  • Folks- the fundamental lie Satan tells lost people is that there’s no such thing as sin- and that they’re not a sinner
    • One of your challenges in sharing Jesus with another person is to correct this misunderstanding
    • And the best way to do that is...
      • Not by berating and browbeating them into submission
      • All you have to do is show them what the Bible says
  • And here’s what Romans 3 is saying:
    • Even if it were theoretically possible to get to heaven by living a "good life"
    • No one ever has- and no one ever will- succeed: "...for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God"
  • A good illustration of this point is to talk about Billy Graham
    • Billy Graham is consistently listed as one of the most admired men in the world
      • His honesty, integrity and humility is universally recognized
      • Even non-Christians will agree that Billy Graham is a good man
    • So you can ask: Do you think this passage of Scripture applies to Billy Graham? Is he a sinner?
      • Most people will say something like this: Billy Graham- no way. He’s a good man- a real Christian!
      • That’s when YOU say: "Well- the Bible says that even Billy Graham is a sinner..."
  • Folks- whenever you share the Gospel you HAVE to deal with the reality of sin. BUT-
    • Don’t assume a smug, self-righteous, judgmental attitude. That approach NEVER works!
    • Instead-
      • Share the truth of the Bible with gentleness and tact
      • And be sure to demonstrate the love of Christ at all times!
ROMANS 6:23
  • Now at the top of the page write "6:23"
    • This means that the next verse you’re going to share is Romans 6:23
    • Read the verse
  • Folks- I can’t overemphasize the importance of Romans 6:23 in sharing God’s plan of salvation
    • You might call it the pivot on which the whole thing turns
    • That’s why it’s so important to be able to explain what this verse is saying
      • And to do that- you have to be able to explain the meaning of three words
      • And one phrase
  • The first of these words is wages. Romans 6:23 says "the WAGES of sin is death"
    • Now a wage is an amount of money you earn for working a particular length of time
    • In other words: It’s what you get for what you do
      • If you’re making $10.00 an hour and you work for 40 hours
      • Before taxes- you’re gonna make $400
        • Nothing more
        • And nothing less
  • The second word is death. "For the wages of sin is DEATH"
    • Now it’s important to understand that the Bible is not talking about physical death in Romans 6:23
    • Instead it’s talking about SPIRITUAL death- which is complete and total separation from God in a place called hell
  • Now to be honest most people don’t believe this is true
    • Instead they generally believe one of two things:
      • They either believe that God would never send someone to hell
      • Or they believe that hell doesn’t exist- so they don’t have to worry about it
    • Folks- you don’t need to argue with somebody who believes these things
      • Instead- show them what God says in His Word!
      • Romans 6:23 says: the wages of sin is death
    • The third word you want to explain is gift
    • Most people have a pretty good idea what the word gift means
    • So you’ll might say something like this:
      • A gift is something that someone else gives you out of the love in their heart...
      • Because it’s a gift- you can’t EARN it and you don’t DESERVE it
    • Now here’s thing:
      • It is absolutely necessary for you to emphasize that God’s gift of salvation can not be earned- and it isn’t deserved
      • Without this vital piece of information God’s love and grace makes no sense
  • And that brings us to the phrase eternal life
    • In the Bible eternal life means that:
      • When you physically die-
      • You continue to live- FOREVER - in the presence of God!
    • And the place where this happens is heaven
  • Now at this point- I like to say something like this: Let me paraphrase Romans 6:23 so you’ll understand what God’s Word is saying
    • What you earn for the sin in your life is spiritual death- eternal separation from God in a place called hell.
    • But God is offering you something that you can’t earn- and you don’t deserve- and that is an eternal home with Him in heaven!
  • Folks- THIS is the Good News that you get to share you
    • God wants EVERYONE to be saved
    • God wants EVERYONE to be with Him in heaven!

ROMANS 5:8-9

  • Now- at the top of the page write "5:8-9"
    • This means that the next passage of Scripture you want to share is Romans 5:8-9
    • Read the passage
  • Let me tell you why this passage of Scripture is so important
    • God paid a VERY high price so He could offer the gift of salvation
    • The price He paid was the life of His one and only Son who died on the Cross of Calvary
  • Illustration: The Cruise
    • Six years ago Pam and I were able to take our first- and so far only- Caribbean cruise
      • It was a great trip and we had a fantastic time! (I even learned how to dance- but that’s another story)
      • But here’s the thing about our trip: It didn’t cost us a dime!
    • So how did we get such a fabulous vacation?
      • Because YOU gave it to us
      • Out of the love in your heart you paid the cost- so that we could enjoy that wonderful gift!
  • Folks- at the Cross God paid the ultimate cost so He could offer you the gift of eternal life!
    • That is the Gospel- that is good news
    • And that’s the message you want to share with someone who is lost

ROMANS 10:9-10

  • Now everything you’ve done up to this point leads to the last two verses of Scripture you need to share
  • Folks- salvation comes down to a simple proposition
    • If a person believes...
      • That Jesus is God’s one and only Son
      • That Jesus died on the Cross for their sin
      • That God physically raised Jesus from the dead on the dead on the third day
    • They will be saved- PERIOD

CONCLUSION

  • Illustration: Jeremy- God Loves You
    • A woman and a 12 year old boy became friends when they were hospitalized for cancer treatments
      • Cathy’s treatments had been going very well. Her tumor had shrunk to the point of insignificance
      • But Jeremy’s cancer was so aggressive it became clear he wouldn’t survive
    • Early one morning a nurse rushed into Cathy’s room: I need you to come with me RIGHT NOW! Jeremy has just a few minutes to live. He wants to see you.
    • The nurse quickly wheeled Cathy into Jeremy’s room
      • Cathy grabbed Jeremy’s hand and said: Jeremy- listen to me. God made you. God loves you. God sent Jesus to die for you. God wants you to come home to live with Him
      • In a weak voice Jeremy said: Say it again
      • Cathy: God made you. God loves you. God sent Jesus to die for you. God wants you to come home to live with Him
      • Jeremy: Thank you God
    • And with those words Jeremy died and went to be with Jesus in heaven
  • Folks-
    • That’s what people who are lost need to know
    • As a Christian that’s what you MUST be prepared to share
  • This sermon has primarily been directed towards Christians- but if you’ve never asked Jesus to be your Savior
    • You’ve heard God’s plan of salvation laid out as clearly and simply as I know how
    • All you have to do is accept what Jesus has done for you- and you will be saved
  • Let us pray

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